this cousin of mine, four years younger to me called me yesterday. she had gotten married this year in feb. she is pregnant. the child is due in jan . am so happy for you, S . i know you will be good mother.
but now i will be so lectured and gossiped and pitied by all the relatives. for past four years , every time someone gets pregnant whether it is friends, relatives or neighbors , we have to go thro these verbal labor pains . i swear am ready to puke now .
and what do you tell them that will satisfy them , make them back off ? aren’t there enough children already ? and anyways to have them should be the parents call , shouldn’t it ?
i am not going to have a child bcoz someone thinks it is about time . i have to take care of the child not them . so i will have one when i think i can . if they want one , they can have one themselves.
and jhoom left yesterday . and i religiously went into depressed mode.
fashion street , noodle bar and chopsticks , linking road , haji ali , that almost illegally tasty cream at the juice shop , the ever preferential pop tate’s , fab India, café mocha , war of the worlds , sarkar , tattoo , beach, in orbit , subway et all . we covered them all and some more. even though i was not well and bed ridden for full 2 days.
and then compared to that, it was so nauseatingly immobile on sunday , hence the miserable me. nish had a couple of meetings yesterday , so there was me and the tv , with nothing to watch . i was missing her so much.
so now there is another rule for staying-at-sanguine ‘s-flat – “no one will leave my house on a weekend. go on a weekday , so that i don’t miss you so much. i don’t care whether it suits your plans or not. it is too much to handle for me.“ *sniff*
¶ 12:18 PM 
Name:Sanguine
Location:Mumbai, India
at the top right corner, so my deductions were correct!!
stop being filmi , really .
SOM what ! !!! you didnt know that i was from mumbai ... but chalo , better late than never ;P
n you promise you will take care of me this sunday huh ? :D
PIXEL thanks {{{{hugs }}}}
and just ignore the relatives. tell them children give you nightmares :) and when You finally decide to go the *puking* way, tell them suddenly its children and dreams :)
Parna
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: 11:53 PM : 4:45 AMyes, let them have one or many if they want.
GABBY i try re .. i try . but sometimes you cant ignore when it is shoved on your face the way this issue is most of the times. :(
ALKA she is so right . my people are worser than my in laws.. my in laws hardly complain :D
No more partying, traveling, etc on Sundays for me. There's too much rest to be had than wasted. :)
tc, and thx.
: 1:50 PMBut here are some biological facts about them.
- If the first baby is born before age 30, chances of breast cancer to the mother later in life are much less.
- After 30, probably to concieve drops sharply.
- A baby born after 30 have more chances of congenital diseases like down's syndrome etc.
But still, the timing choice of baby is only the couple's, not anyone else's. Period.
even i have decided no late nites for me on sunday. early to bed to face the monday face on
AQUA thanks girl
and you are right . i will have a baby when i want . period.
Gorgeous
: 11:16 AMKHOTTA hey , i MISS you . your regular posts. :D
: 12:47 PMYou have done a good job yourselves on this blog of yours. Will come by often!
Also, lemme tell you am where you are right now in the children part :-), definately know how it is!
Take care n be happy.
Luv
Arundhati
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